Setting healthy boundaries is a skill every parent needs!
A familiar scenario unfolded at my playschool program, Magical Child. Josie wanted to go outside in her new shoes and her mama said, it wet and muddy outside. You need to wear your boots.
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One of the hardest jobs on a parent docket is saying in a benevolent way and sticking to it. I have worked and played with children for almost 30 years and during these years I seen it get harder for parents to say NO in a healthy way. So often once parents say the NO word, they don follow through, then they need to say it again and again and again wonder what wrong with their children. "No" needs a follow through,
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I would like to walk you through how to set a clear,
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